Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get on with Life Margalis Fjelstad
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc.

I am too exhausted to go into the details right now but I am living with my mother who has borderline and narcissistic personality disorder and it is consistent drain on all my energy. Codependent behaviour is where the pattern begins and is also where it can end. Nov 2, 2012 - If you are codependent and have a narcissistic marriage partner there is a very good chance a brother or sister of yours may have narcissistic tendencies too. Oct 20, 2009 - Just as there are ordinary good-enough parents who mysteriously produce a difficult child, there are some decent people who have the misfortune of having truly toxic parents. Nov 30, 2012 - It's Narcissist Friday! I was about 26 years old when I cut ties with my Dad who was an abusive-narcissist, pretty much a crazy son-of-a-beach. I have to stop reading respondes cause it sickens me inside. I feel my life slipping away, as the “peacekeeping caretaker” middle child, I've given my life away to these sick blood relatives who suck my blood and then kick me. Over and over I get the question as to whether a narcissist can be saved. Could he ever become a Christian? Could she ever stop being a narcissist? Just wanted to say that the practice of self-soothing and not feeding into the drama is great for anyone, especially those with diffacult people in their lives. In spite of my doubt, I have to say entry that there are narcissists who read this blog, but I have only seen one of them make a comment or admission of their narcissism, and that one seemed to want help only as a means to an end – to win someone back into his life.